We keep going back and forth between a destination or local wedding. We are making that decision this weekend. Our biggest problem is how to keep this a small event like we both want. the list keeps getting bigger and bigger. Oh brother .
Don't feel bad about not inviting people. If you don't have the budget for a huge wedding, don't plan one. The wedding will be over before you know it and you'll be lucky if you remember anything. Make sure family and your closest friends are there and don't sweat the rest.