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  • RSBro

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    Throwing this out there, as I'm sure this is not the only person this has happened to...

    A friend of the last 7-8 years recently fell on hard times. I bought a pistol from him about 4 months back, and it took him a few weeks to get it to me, but I finally got it.

    About 3 weeks ago, he contacted me to buy another pistol, and told me he'd take $200 off if I could send the $ now, and not upon pickup. I agreed, and sent it thru PayPal as a "transfer" and not a purchase, since that's what 'friends' do, right... :facepalm: The PayPal transfer does indicate what the purchase was for, along with other documentation.

    Anyway, he has not been able to bring me the gun, despite numerous 'promises' to do such via text message, email, Google Chat, etc. Also promised to refund the $ utnil I got the gun. That was last contact.

    Recently this 'friend' has gone dark, and I keep texting and calling, to no avail. Not sure what the deal is, but my wife is furious as the pistol was not cheap, and this person refuses to acknowledge me any longer.

    Since I have the agreement of purchase and agreement to refund monies in writing, is this possible to pursue in Small Claims Court? I hate to do this which would ruin said 'friendship' but at this point it's just ridiculous to keep jerking me around in this matter, and I'm done arguing with him about it.

    What would you do, and what are possible options I have, if any? Thanks in advance!
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    Dad_Roman

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    Your obviously young. Sorry the wifey unit is mad.

    You used poor judgement. Own it and move on with your life. Chalk it up to a life experience.

    Its the ladder of life......Good judgement comes from good experience which comes from good decisions which comes from bad judgement which comes from bad experience which comes from bad decisions.

    Sorry to be blunt, you'll get over it.
     

    Chirpy

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    Well, I wouldn't worry about ruining the friendship, as I think the other party has demonstrated what value that friendship has to them.

    You could probably file in small claims court, but you'll probably never see the money. But it might make wifey happy, which is worth a lot at my house :-)

    But, I'd start getting comfy with the idea that the money is gone, and no matter how expensive the pistol, the lesson was cheap.
     

    Moonpie

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    Gunz are icky.
    Hate to be Mr.Negative but really there is nothing you can do.
    There was no paperwork or sales contract.
    Word of Mouth means jack and/or shite.
    Finding the guy and taking the gun could go bad for you.
    He can scream theft and you're hosed.
    Beating the crapola out of him won't fly either.
    Write this one off and next time you know to have the item in hand before funds change hands.
     

    BillFairbanks

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    Just send him this

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    Mowingmaniac 24/7

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    Your distrust factor should be at maximum peak from now on.

    Relatively low cost lesson.

    Could have been worse.

    If you lend a friend or a relative money, (which in effect you did) consider it a gift and move on...
     

    pronstar

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    Texts and emails aren’t quite like a written contract, but they’re better than anything verbal. Especially if it’s a string with both of you communicating back-and-forth.

    I’d give him a shot and say “and if I don’t hear from you, I have no choice but to go to small claims court with our electronic correspondence as evidence”.


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