Sage advice and that is my intentWhatever y'all decide let her pick it out! After first getting married I bought the wife a purse with an easy access compartment for a pistol. I did lots of shopping for it & it was not cheap. She hated it!!! Didn't like the way it looked & didn't go with anything she wore, was her excuse. She was carrying a S&W model 36 with 2 inch barrel just in her purse with all that crap women thing they need. The gun was constantly packed with lint & other bottom of the purse debris,