There is a lot of truth to what you are saying. My hope is to find something within a reasonable drive so if we wanted to do something we could. Currently if we want to go out to dinner and not be in a little pub we have to go about 45 minutes to a hour to do it. I can't live in a city and neither can she. It's the family thing that's going to bother her. Unless I can convince her mom to retire a few years early and come with us. I'm working on that too since she wants to move south as well.