Bit of a semantics play there.
Unfortunately most of our individualism went out when we joined the Confederacy and was lumped into that decision.
I wish the South would have won, but I cannot agree with it's general acceptance of slavery.
It would have been just fine. Slavery would have ended the same as it did but with a huge difference. When Lincoln was killed, the Yankees in a knee jerk reaction put blacks in charge of everything in the south. The results were disasterous. These people were only recently slaves and didn't know how to run their own lives as free men, much less run any sort of government. It was chaos. The north forgot to tell these freed slaves that they still had to work to make a living. They actually thought that free meant free everything and they still do. If the south would have won, the freed slaves would have had a more gradual transition and a learning period. Things would be a whole lot better today if they would have had this transition period and educated the ex-slaves on how to be free and live in society.
Booker T Washington tried to teach the blacks. He would take groups of them out and when he said today we're going to (whatever task) today, they complained. "Work?!? You never said that we would have to do any work!" Booker T had a hard row to hoe.