What century or time frame would you liked to have lived in? Other than this one.
It wouldn't necessarily be that bad. You have the knowledge to build an indoor toilet and septic system from materials that would have been available.200 years in the future. My degree is in history (among like 6 other things) and I can tell you living before 1920 would suck. (That's when modern sewage became available.)
Being given a home and a wife and simply being expected to be part of the community doesn't sound like a bad deal.Tahiti prior to the arrival of the Europeans.