That's why I don't go to church anymore. It has nothing to do with my belief system or anything like that, if I found one I really enjoyed I would be there.
I went back to the church I grew up on years ago. When I was there with my parents, I was a kid and didn't see the politics of it all. As an adult, I was shunned and talked down to because of being heavily tattooed. The youth minister was cheating on his wife with another married woman there... things like that. I heard so much negativity and witnessed abundant hypocrisy, so I was done with it.
The important part is living a good life, helping others, and trying to make a difference each day... even if it's tiny and even if it's thankless. Church should be an encouragement to do this, and a group of people with the same mindset to support each other.
I went back to the church I grew up on years ago. When I was there with my parents, I was a kid and didn't see the politics of it all. As an adult, I was shunned and talked down to because of being heavily tattooed. The youth minister was cheating on his wife with another married woman there... things like that. I heard so much negativity and witnessed abundant hypocrisy, so I was done with it.
The important part is living a good life, helping others, and trying to make a difference each day... even if it's tiny and even if it's thankless. Church should be an encouragement to do this, and a group of people with the same mindset to support each other.