Have you, or any of your immediate family, been to Vietnam fairly recently? I know a few people in situations analogous to yours who have, and all were very glad they went.
My mom and older sister (was born there) went back for the first time about 5 years ago.
Yup, they were super glad they did.
It’s a shithole compared to when they left.
I wanna go one day, prolly when the boy is older.
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