You poke the bear, you get a polite answer, you poke the bear some more, you get a clear answer, you continue to poke the bear and the bear gets up, slams you into the wall and bites you a new one next to the old one and then you go away pouting and feeling sorry for yourself!
GROW A SPINE! STAND UP AND BE A MAN! STOP WHINING! STAND BEHIND THE THINGS YOU WANT AND KNOW AND DON'T LET CIRCUMSTANCE PUSH YOU AROUND! FIGHT BACK AND QUIT ACTING LIKE A WIMPY GIRL! YOU WON'T GET ANYWHERE WITH THAT ATTITUDE!
Whheeewww, ok, I'm back now.