As I said a decade ago, to some long forgotten members.right, a cult meeting to deal with the outsider, of course...
"It's not about you. Get over it."
I say that to myself daily. If I'm on line.
Off line, I'm with family and friends. I try to make it about them.
Here, it's just a local tavern where everyone has a chance to shine or eat crow.
If you're here, you're not an outsider, you're just not as comfortable as some of us are.
Hang around. Find your feet. Learn the crowd.