That's why I said "THEY'RE confused about their goesintas". I did not mean to imply anything regarding what YOU (or anyone) might call them.Ahhhh, mainly it's just trying to size up a person on how to treat them. I can care less what another person's sexual preference is, I just don't want them running to my supervisor saying I treated them unfairly and not knowing I was.
I'd never heard anyone use the term "goesinta" until I started working out in BFE, so I take it as a rural Texas expression . . . which kinda plays into Vaquero's comment about "Y'all ain't from around here" . . .
So basically, since I had to 'splain it, my attempt at humor FAILED. Dagnabit.