Nope!!
The other side of this and the side I was coming from is not the wife and kids, that's too obvious and tragic and every day. I'm talking about a 37 yr. man who has the resources ($$$$) to be pretty damn influential to a 20 year old girl. A lot of you are about her age so you won't know and may not agree yet, with where I'm coming from. But you will one day. Based on what we know so far, and it could take a turn and this be wrong, but......He messed with a 20 year old girl. A kid. What does it do to a 20 yr. old girl when a sports celebrity with money and fame, gives her attention? She knows, or thinks shes special because she's being put ahead of his family, she live a charmed life around him, she thinks it'll last, and it goes on and on.
At 20 yr's old, a girl is coming into the time of her life where she naturally (not in today's society but you can't fight nature) is getting ready to reproduce and start a family. There's all kinds of psychological things going on that make her a prime target for a guy like that to take advantage of her simply to be in the company of a hot young girl and who's going to give him everything she has but for different reasons. He wants a pretty piece of ass; she wants a mate and provider, something that even if he wants to give her, he can't and won't and at some point as she's moving in that direction, he'll start side stepping and it's got to come to a head and will blow up. The DWI was a major event considering he was with her. Who knows how scared he was that their "thing" wound become public and ruin his marriage and family. He starts to pull back fast, she feels abandoned and snaps. It's just plain wrong for a guy to do that to a young girl. A man would understand that and make different choices. Celebrity and money does not require a man to be a man.
You jack with a girl like that and you set yourself up to get shot, multiple times.
Uh, I wasn't talking a out a 12 year old getting her period. But I don't think it'll do any good to try to explain. 
