IMHO, I'd spend a bit extra and buy a new XDm in 9mm. They'll hold 19+1 and the quality is all there. They come with interchangable backstraps to fit your grip. With your gun and two spare mags, you'd be holding 58 rounds at any given time!
yeah i held an xdm and love it.. and im not stuck on 9mm, i wish they had a 45acp in the xdm and im sure they will just after i buy one in 40 cal... but it seems like the quality is better in my research but i just like that look of an m9. thanks for the input
Nothing against the M9, but I've always been more of a fan of the Taurus 92's. They are essentially the same gun, except for the location of the safety. The M9 has it on the slide (the new design) and the Taurus 92 has it on the frame. What this allows the Taurus to do is to lock the slide if you have it in Safe.
Also the Taurus is a bit cheaper, but not too much.