Some time ago I had posted a question about how to take care of elderly parents. http://www.texasguntalk.com/forums/off-topic-chat/65504-elderly-parents.html where some of responded with some good advice. Thank you.
I am now at a point with my father that has been building for more than a decade concerning his wife. For those of you that have been down the path of divorce and have either lost a father or came close to it please chime in with your experience.
The problem of my father being run over by this whore has now gotten into our phone calls between my father and I. We live 800 hundred miles apart so obviously I cannot just drive over and fix things. She will listen in (eavesdrop) on calls and now has my father believing and telling me that this is the way its going to be! When I call him she will hover around him listening in on the call and like clock work, about 15 -20 minutes into the call, she will appear and tart to distract him. So much so my father cannot focus and our call and he just go blank. Seriously he just stops talking,then starts mumbling, then will suddenly start having a conversation with her and the phone goes dead.
I am on the other end about to explode with rage.
So this last call they were in the car when I called and he picked up and immediately put me on speaker. He did not say that she was in the car and proceeded to talk to me if he was alone. I figured it out and told him we would talk later and he asked why. I told him that I will not have conversations with him with someone eavesdropping in on our calls. He yelled back at me and I hung up.
I m not going to go back through all that has happened to my family but it has been an ugly scene of events over the years. My parents divorce happened when I was 12 and that was like a WWE event or all of the adults involved. Lots of fighting, police, drinking all around two young children. Since then the home wrecking gutter whore Step Mommy has been causing small problems all along the way ad now we've arrived to the end of days and its gotten worse.
I am asking TGT and especially those that have been in this position what you did to move past something like this. For me the problem is every phone call I have the knowledge she is there listening in and interrupting each and every time. Others keep telling me to "suck it up" and just brush it off. I cannot do that.
I am at a crossroad with my father and I'm not sure what to do?
I am now at a point with my father that has been building for more than a decade concerning his wife. For those of you that have been down the path of divorce and have either lost a father or came close to it please chime in with your experience.
The problem of my father being run over by this whore has now gotten into our phone calls between my father and I. We live 800 hundred miles apart so obviously I cannot just drive over and fix things. She will listen in (eavesdrop) on calls and now has my father believing and telling me that this is the way its going to be! When I call him she will hover around him listening in on the call and like clock work, about 15 -20 minutes into the call, she will appear and tart to distract him. So much so my father cannot focus and our call and he just go blank. Seriously he just stops talking,then starts mumbling, then will suddenly start having a conversation with her and the phone goes dead.
I am on the other end about to explode with rage.
So this last call they were in the car when I called and he picked up and immediately put me on speaker. He did not say that she was in the car and proceeded to talk to me if he was alone. I figured it out and told him we would talk later and he asked why. I told him that I will not have conversations with him with someone eavesdropping in on our calls. He yelled back at me and I hung up.
I m not going to go back through all that has happened to my family but it has been an ugly scene of events over the years. My parents divorce happened when I was 12 and that was like a WWE event or all of the adults involved. Lots of fighting, police, drinking all around two young children. Since then the home wrecking gutter whore Step Mommy has been causing small problems all along the way ad now we've arrived to the end of days and its gotten worse.
I am asking TGT and especially those that have been in this position what you did to move past something like this. For me the problem is every phone call I have the knowledge she is there listening in and interrupting each and every time. Others keep telling me to "suck it up" and just brush it off. I cannot do that.
I am at a crossroad with my father and I'm not sure what to do?