I think that's great. Nothing we can do will replace or give us back someone we lost that was dear to us, and some people have a different ways of dealing with grief. And grief is part of the healing process. Helping others might be one way you are using to cope with the grief and loss.A group like this helped me a bunch after I lost the queen. Trying help those who are hurting like I was.
I think that's great. Nothing we can do will replace or give us back someone we lost that was dear to us, and some people have a different ways of dealing with grief. And grief is part of the healing process. Helping others might be one way you are using to cope with the grief and loss.
Personally, I think it's admirable and compassionate.
And I thought CAJUN's would eat anything.You compare me to a yankee one more time and I’m heading north to Palestine.
My mother’s family, who have been Texans for generations served it with rice, so that is how we grew up. I guess the rice does the same as beans: makes the meat stretch further.
My Cajun wife thinks they are nuts. It seems that chili is the only meal she doesn’t have rice with. (not quite true, but it makes a point)
Chili in the UK comes with rice, but not sure I trust the Brits. They tried to serve me Cajun salmon. Salmon!!??? You can’t catch salmon in Louisiana.
Morning earthlings. Happy Friday! Unfortunately every Friday is a work day for me these days but thems the breaks.
Now where did I put that coffee cup?
Watch for signs of "desperation replacement" and "blame". These can lead down a very bad place that doesn't end well.Talking about it helps more than anything. You can’t fix a grieving person. But talking about the lost person and your loss brings healing. It never goes away, but it gets easier over time. Talking about it seems to make the pain less intense and fir a shorter time.
In my training we had a guy speak. He said grieving people don’t need to be fixed, they need to be heard.
Fir me, the more I talked about it, the less it hurt. Two years out now, and I’m finding joy again. The first year was pretty dark.
I lost my 9/80’s earlier this year. I truly miss having every other Friday off.
And if anyone mentions putting chili on spaghetti, someone please find a new rope and a very tall tree!
Noddles and vodak.Ohio….
Sorry. What where we taking about. Oh chili. Yeah I’m going to eat it with beans on rice on noddles with eggs and what else was talked about? Just because I can. Is this a good idea. No. But I can because freedom.