Well, sort of.I can understand the officer asking you to step out. The officer did not do that in the case in the thread. He grabbed her and swung her around like a rag doll.
He asked her to stand up while simultaneously reaching for her. In other words, he gave an order then initiated the use of force instantly, without giving her time to comply. It was quite clear that the order to get out of the vehicle ("Stand up for me, OK?") was given purely by rote; he had decided to use force as soon as she talked ("Could you please hurry up?") instead of putting her feet inside the car.