fury of a woman scorned - pics

[Vaquero]

Well then my wife must be defective. In our ten years of marriage and thirteen years together, I have yet to see this rage — and god knows I've done damn near everything to deserve it (outside of cheating or beating). Truth is though, I don't think my wife is defective at all. I treat her like my queen, she treats me like a king. I'm respectful of her wishes, but don't let her control me — and vice versa. I'm impatient, self-absorbed, unruly and down-right mean. But with her I'm none of those things and I think that's the difference. For some strange reason, she makes me better.

We hear all the time from other couples, TV and church how hard marriage is; we just look at each other awkwardly. Marriage isn't hard, it's not work, it's not an inconvenience. Sharing time with someone you truly enjoy being around should not be tough. We agree on where we spend our money, our time, and our energy. We don't fight over bills, or chores, or whatever it is spouses fight over. We discipline our children similarly and just don't get mad at each other. I guess we're weird, though.

My four year old daughter caught us kissing last night while she was brushing her teeth and asked, "what are you doing?" To which my wife replied "Loving daddy." And she remarked "You guys can't love each other; you're married!" Sounds like a lot of adults I know.

It happens.
33 years at the end of the month.

 

[hellishhorses]

I'm pretty sure this "switch theory" is flawed. One thing I've witnessed with humans in general is absolutes do not exist. Human behavior is something that is impossible to predict. I'm not so naive as to think my wife couldn't possibly flip out, kill all of our children and run off with her lesbian lover. These woman haters shouldn't be so arrogant to assume that it's a given.

 

[jrbfishn]

My ex wife was one of the most loving, caring and sweetest women i had ever met. Until our daughter died. Then she went absolutely bat shit crazy. We all have a switch. Only question, is what will flip it.


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[hellishhorses]

My third marriage...

You lose all credibility

 

[CrazedJava]

You lose all credibility

Hey, not everyone gets it right the first time!

 

[Younggun]

Way to many long and happy marriages for all the "women are evil" BS to gain any traction outside of those who probably have identical character flaws as the women who they always seem to have these problems with.

I've got a brother in law who finds the same types, I've called it the first day I met them. He's just a dumbass though.


At any rate, the idea that women are somehow just naturally vindictive bitches out to ruin a mans life is just a way for some to justify their inability to have a lasting relationship without being saddled with any of the responsibility. Just like the women who claim all men are scum when it's obvious why their relationships don't work.

 

[breakingcontact]

^ Way *too many...

Good point though.

 

[Younggun]

Thank you. Sometimes I get excited and forget to be grammatically correct.

 

[jrbfishn]

Oh there are a lot of good women out there. One problem peope have is marrying for the wrong reasons.
My ex had her button pushed. They are not all like that. To those who got it right and managed to keep that way the first time, I envy you. Sometimes circumstances take control. I know far to many that create their own circumstance though. Both male and female. Damn shame. But you can't fix stupid.


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[kyletxria1911a1]

Oh there are a lot of good women out there. One problem peope have is marrying for the wrong reasons.
My ex had her button pushed. They are not all like that. To those who got it right and managed to keep that way the first time, I envy you. Sometimes circumstances take control. I know far to many that create their own circumstance though. Both male and female. Damn shame. But you can't fix stupid.


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this when men or women get stuck on stupid
And things happen. If one or both are crazy. Then it's time to break camp,
life is to short. But when you get a good one you keep it. Buuu uuuuuu <uuu <u <uutt\
it takes a whole Lotta work

 

[breakingcontact]

Thank you. Sometimes I get excited and forget to be grammatically correct.

Noh problum! I only point it out because you do.

 

[breakingcontact]

Everyone needs to change. If we think some person is bad and we are good we have it twisted from the start.

 

[hellishhorses]

Troof

 

[AngeliaH]

Everybody has the potential to snap. Male or female. Young or old. We all have it in us. Recognizing that fact is the first step in avoiding it or recovering from it. I think. I mean thats what I've heard. Of course I'm an angel and I have nothing that even resembles a "bitch switch and the sooner yall realize that the better! !

 

[Dhayes]

What Angie said

 

[jrbfishn]

Ok,,,, yeah, riiight.

Naw,,, ain't buyin' it

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[JohnnyLoco]

My third marriage was the same way. The absolute love of my life. The most amazing woman Ive ever known.

She was also the most viscous woman Ive known.

That 'switch' isnt a joke. When she gos from side A, queen of your world. To side B....

Your world as you know it, is in some heavy sh$t. Game the fuuk over. The glass is busted. The horse dead. The fire is permanently pee'd out.


I wish you the best. I hope this world, you two live a long life together. But, dewd.....the 'switch' is there. Tread lightly


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I think I need to hear specifics to understand how this works.

I'll admit, I don't get it and I've been around some pretty bad people in my life.

Maybe you all ignored or were blind to the signs early on, but I can assure you, there were signs, and people rarely change who they are, unless the are deliberately acting. Acting for any length of time is almost impossible for most folks other than raging sociopaths.

I've seen people change for the better through religious experience. Some people grow and become more confident and self-reliant as they get older.

This quote is worth using again, because I think these are some of the things to look for. And no, all women are not like this. And I wouldn't worry about some imaginary "switch."

I imagine a woman who flys off of the handle at everything, uses anger and rage as manipulation, etc. Probably witholds affection and sex as a tool as well.

Those of us who have good mamas, sisters, and have daughters should think twice before describing women in such a hateful way.

 

[benenglish]

Those of us who have good mamas, sisters, and have daughters should think twice before describing women in such a hateful way.

I don't think he was saying they're all like that, just that some can be. In that, I'd have to agree with him.

OTOH, my parents were "get a room" in love for as long as they were married, something that could only be cut short by my dad's death. I think the example they set kinda handicapped me, actually. I went out into the world expecting to find that sort of relationship, failed, and still wonder why.

Too late to do anything about it now, though.

 

[JohnnyLoco]

I don't think he was saying they're all like that, just that some can be. In that, I'd have to agree with him.

OTOH, my parents were "get a room" in love for as long as they were married, something that could only be cut short by my dad's death. I think the example they set kinda handicapped me, actually. I went out into the world expecting to find that sort of relationship, failed, and still wonder why.

Too late to do anything about it now, though.

May I quote?

There are some universal truths in dealing with women:

Every last one of them has the "Bitch Switch" which transforms them into shrews who want to slaughter males in the most painful and bloody way possible...

 

[JohnnyLoco]

I took grasshopperglock's account as supposed anecdotal evidence in support of Flash's claims.