I only read the 1st post before I posted. I called Deemus right away & spoke to him briefly. My prayers go out to him & his family in their time of loss. I was fortunate enough to meet his wife a few months ago & she was an awesome woman. Sorry for your loss my friend, she will be missed.
I just checked looking for an update. Now prayers for the family and friends. She no longer feels the pain. But it's hard to be glad for that. I am profoundly sorry for your loss. God bless you with the strength to endure the days to come. Its hard to see a future, but it is there.
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I can't even image what you and your family are going through. I wish that there was something that I could do for you.