Did the lawyer thing last year.
Still need to have a "sit down" with the kids and fine tune some real estate stuff.
Half of a farm is great. But which half might be an issue.
Hell. They might just sell and pocket the cash.
Not my problem, but, I'd like to know.
Yup - have the discussion early. You might find one has ZERO interest, but it's the life's dream of the other. Maybe give 99% of it to the interested one, and a small "homestead" piece to the other. Make up for it with other parts of the estate. A good friend of mine did that - the daughter had zero interest in the ranch, but wanted the house badly. Through open discussion, she was willing to forego the rest of the property if she could have the house and 3 acres. Son was perfectly fine with that - the house sat alongside the road, and he preferred to live further into the property. If anything, their relationship grew stronger because he appreciated her unselfish willingness to keep the ranch intact.