Thanks for chiming in, the thread was seeming a little one-sidedA great and pertinent question. I will always prefer more safety in my handguns and my wife does as well. As a Marine in 'Nam unfortunately I witnessed two terrible accidents with a .45 by others. They carried 24/7 and even though trained and experienced, accidents happened. The worst one was during monsoon season late one night and the pouring rain made it difficult for even an emergency Medevac. Knee was blown apart. Some sounds and screams you never forget. Anyway, I swore for many years that I'd never ever have a handgun and damn sure not a .45. However, I eased up a tad a few years ago, began studying and got a S&W EZ Shield 9mm and insisted on safety features. It has a thumb lever safety along with a loaded chamber indicator on top plus grip safety to boot. I realize most handguns don't have all that but at least a thumb lever is a must for me and I verify it works at the range. My wife has a Taurus TX 22 with a thumb safety lever as well. It takes only a fraction of a second to thumb the safety before firing which we do often between mags. Practice is very key. Good luck. Here is my 9mm with all its safety features.