The thing I take issue with is the larger societal issue that people have forgotten how to be fierce and fend for themselves when confronted by a serious threat. Most just want to call the police and let us handle it. If people weren't this way I believe we'd see much fewer active shooters and much less crime. Instead, we will continue to see crime rise until the majority in society learn to not get trampled on by those who would prey upon them.
We agree on that issue....a large part of it has been fostered by the various government agencies that tell you "the gubmint will take care of it." If my neighbor is disturbing me with noise, I'll go pay a visit and discuss it with them civilly. If someone is being assaulted, I will intervene if I can - at gunpoint if necessary (I have in the past, and would do so again if needed). The key is to KNOW what is going on, separate the sides, and let the cops sort it out once they're there. There are folks on this board that'll tell you I can be proactive if needed - the key again is knowing what to do and doing in a way that minimizes risk to everyone involved.
Where I take issue is a blanket statement - because blankets can smother the good and the bad. While you and most of us have thought processes that have definitive risk assessment guidelines, some out there don't - and as a result, can be as big a danger to the situation as the perp is. That is where I was going with my questions - go back and read your initial post as a 3rd party, and I think you'll concur that it could easily be misconstrued. People have to KNOW what they're doing before they take action that could have fatal consequences - otherwise, they could well end up facing charges themselves. I have NO problem with drawing down on someone - but I need to know that I'm drawing down on a bad guy - not an UO that's trying to subdue a perp.