Thing about women, the older they get the more there's damn little difference between them.This is not advice, or even a suggestion, just an observation from me. I think we all get fed up to a point that sometimes it seems the best course of action is to cut bait and run. I have been there as well. Been in the same situation where I tell my wife thingsm but she never seems to listen. And I understand, it's very stressful and frustrating. I would never advise you to stay or go, since it's not my place. In the end, you are the only one that can decide that. But I'm always around to talk if you need an ear and just want to vent. Sometimes venting will relieve the stress.
Choice is to stay in the frying pan, or risk the fire ...