She's pissed again...

[Sam7sf]

Nobody has ever, actually "won" an argument with his wife.

This. So a guy has three options. Do whatever she wants...do what she wants and hide what you buy...or be like me and do what you want and don't hide it. Warning this choice comes with consequences. Lol.

 

[diesel1959]

My current wife goes to great lengths to NOT touch my stuff. She does not want to put up with me after if she does.
My ex-wife was not as smart. Luckily,, someone else has her sorry ass now.

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/this\ I've explained numerous times that I don't mess with her stuff and I expect the same consideration from her. Further, neither of us can determine for the other WHERE the other's things must be placed. Don't move my keys or coats, etc., and don't even go in the ManRoom®/gun room. She has been pretty darn good about it. I NEVER go in her purse and I expect her NEVER to go through my wallet. It has worked well for 29 years. The ex never could abide by these rules and she got kicked to the curb after three years.

 

[FireInTheWire]

If there isn't a medical condition.... Ya'll need to have a long sit down. That is abnormal behavior.

May I ask... do you take her fishing? and shooting?

 

[TheMailMan]

If there isn't a medical condition.... Ya'll need to have a long sit down. That is abnormal behavior.

May I ask... do you take her fishing? and shooting?

She has no interest in either. She has no hobbies, no interests. I do have to state she's a redhead. So that explains some of it.

 

[avvidclif]

Sure she has a hobby, Aggravating you.... Sound's like she's good at it.

 

[Kar98]

 

[robertc1024]

My wife used to throw out stuff she didn't recognize. I made her aware of the importance of some of them, and now just makes a pile for me to sort through, or at least asks. I attribute a lot of it to her dad never fixing anything. I tend to chew the last bit of sweet out of most of my stuff - to a fault sometimes.

 

[Vaquero]

We're both pack rats.
Nearly have to talk each other into throwing anything away.
It works for us.

 

[dsgrey]

Mine won't throw away ANYTHING - mine or hers. I was going threw stuff the other day and came across her driver's permit training certificate from 1978.

 

[FireInTheWire]

I do have to state she's a redhead.

Bingo.

 

[diesel1959]

I do have to state she's a redhead.

Bingo.

Mine's a redhead too, but she has been highly trainable.

 

[Vaquero]

Mine's a redhead too, but I've been highly trainable.

Fify.

 

[diesel1959]

Fify.

I'd say we're both highly trainable and have been a good fit. I'm lucky to have her.

 

[easy rider]

I'd say we're both highly trainable and have been a good fit. I'm lucky to have her.

She's got on gun on ya right?

j/k

 

[diesel1959]

She's got on gun on ya right?

j/k

:lol: My wife won't even handle any of my firearms. I'd love for her to go shooting with me, but she just has no interest. Thank God she let's me indulge in my hobby with only mild pushback.

 

[Charlie]

"........... mild pushback" I like it!

 

[Dawico]

..or be like me and do what you want and don't hide it. Warning this choice comes with consequences. Lol.

That is what I do. Works well.

 

[Brains]

Talked to my wife about it, she asked a handful of other questions like if she has been losing weight, changing sleep patterns, having other bouts of forgetfulness, having any instances of "missing" time, or other perception of time non-linearity. She seemed to think it may be more medically related than anything else, but then mentioned that our 19 year old has mindlessly thrown away things without realizing it too (like throwing away a bowl and spoon instead of putting it in the dishwasher).

 

[Wildcat Diva]

This stinks. I hope she will sit down with you and solve the problem. If it’s a problem for you, it IS a problem for her, y’all being married and all. She needs to care.

She needs to tell you she will work on it (being more careful) and DO it.

If there is a reason she’s doing it (medical or otherwise) it needs taken care of too.

Maybe if you can’t trust her to fix it, (or if it’s not easily fixed) you might choose to be more careful with not giving her access to your stuff... (wait... that’s not what I meant!) ... I mean you may have to put up your things so she can’t get to them. Lock them in a foot locker chest or something. Get things mailed to a P.O. box or friend’s address. This sounds like a huge pain, but not sure what alternatives are that aren’t drastic.

I really hope that nothing more serious is wrong with her regarding this.

I put up with a lot of messed up, stupid shit from my husband (and kids too). I’m smart enough to say that they can probably say the same about me. Nothing we have done so far is a “deal breaker,” but it’s been CLOSE at times. With that being said, I’m happy that we’ve been married over 20 years and want to keep that going. I have no interest in being single OR alone or involved with anybody else, and he’s told me he feels the same. So, we are both stuck with each other’s awesomeness and bullshit at the same time. Yay.

 

[Vaquero]

This stinks. I hope she will sit down with you and solve the problem. If it’s a problem for you, it IS a problem for her, y’all being married and all. She needs to care.

She needs to tell you she will work on it (being more careful) and DO it.

If there is a reason she’s doing it (medical or otherwise) it needs taken care of too.

Maybe if you can’t trust her to fix it, (or if it’s nit easily fixed) you might choose to be more careful with not giving her access to your stuff... (wait... that’s not what I meant!) ... I mean you may have to put up your things so she can’t gwt to them. Lock them in a foot locker chest or something. Get things mailed to a P.O. box or friend’s address. This sounds like a huge pain, but not sure what alternatives are that aren’t drastic.

I really hope that nothing more serious is wrong with her regarding this.

I put up with a lot of messed up, stupid shit from my husband (and kids too). I’m smart enough to say that they can probably say the same about me. Nothing we have done so far is a “deal breaker,” but it’s been CLOSE at times. With that being said, I’m happy that we’ve been married over 20 years and want to keep that going. I have no interest in being single OR alone or involved with anybody else, and he’s told me he feels the same. So, we are both stuck with each other’s awesomeness and bullshit at the same time. Yay.

Awesomeness and bullshit.
I do believe she's cracked the code!