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Trouble with the pregnancy...

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  1. JColumbus

    JColumbus Well-Known

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    Hey all. I'm hoping some of you can help my wife and I out a little. Well, I hope you can help, without having gone through this event. We haven't, yet, either. So far, or so we're told.

    The Gyno is not much of a help, or at least perhaps he really can't help right now.

    It started shortly after she found out she was pregnant. She started feeling terrible cramps, non stop, with nausea. It's been consistent for most of the day, every day. She spotted a little bit, and passed tissue that looks like the miscarriage tissue that I've seen in research.

    The thing is, the Doc says that tests show she's still pregnant, should be fine unless she bleeds a lot more, but can't say anything for sure until she is 8 weeks pregnant.

    Has anyone gone through this? Is it normal for her to be in crippling pain and nausea to the point where she barely eats? I'm talking about a tough woman who almost never complains about anything and has to be in some serious pain to take some Aleve. In our 12 years together, I have never seen her like this. Not even when she was pregnant with out 2 girls.

    I'm really worried about her as she is obviously not getting very much nutrition and has to force herself to eat for the sake of giving the baby something. I've done much research on this and everything points to a miscarriage, but the Doc says she hasn't. I just don't get it. Any help, advice, or whatever, would really help. God bless.
     


  2. AngeliaH

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    Is a 2nd opinion possible? Did they just do the piss test? Or actual examin?
     
  3. AngeliaH

    AngeliaH Life's Peachy TGT Supporter

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    Has she had a sonogram?
     
  4. BG1960

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    I ain't got no frame of reference, but I would find another doc if it was my spouse.
     
  5. itchin

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    My wife had a.miscarriage. She'll know of she is no longer pregnant. My wife is pregnant right now and is nauseous pretty much all the time. I don't think she has the cramps like yours though. IIRC she also spotted some with our daughter. Have they hooked her up to a Doppler yet? You can buy one for around $50 on eBay and will be able to hear the heart beat. I'm not sure when the beat is audible.
     
  6. JColumbus

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    Yes, I believe it is possible and we are currently looking for someone els. This Doc was great with our second one though, so I'm hoping he's not just blowing her off. No sonogram...

    ...Or doppler yet. He told her that since she isn't 8 weeks, any tests would be pointless cause, I'm guessing, the fetus isn't developed?

    She looked so bad today. She always has so much energy and has NONE. Totally different person. I wasn't even this bad when I was bleeding internally and as a matter of fact, I wasn't this bad 5 minutes after I was revived in 2011.

    We've done our studies and are aware of the egg possible growing in the fallopian tube, but she doesn't have pain on that one side and I forgot what els, but there were some other signs that she seems to not have.

    Yes, gonna do that. Or, at least get 2nd opinion. But if it's the same, we want to keep this guy. We had last minute trouble with out second and this guy helped everything to go very smoothly.

    Thank guys.
     
  7. txbikerman

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    will be praying for the family
     
  8. JColumbus

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    Thank you. God bless.
     
  9. TxDad

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    I cant contribute anything here J, but I just wanted to say that yall we be in my prayers.
     
  10. txbikerman

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    your welcome brother
     


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