SloppyShooter
Certifiable
I'm now to the point where I'll be at a restaurant with the 14 and 15 year old, and some toddler will be out of control, running between tables and what not and they will look at us and say "I'm so glad you didn't let us do that"!
The threat of "Do you want to go outside" was all it took to get things under control. My oldest, the stubborn daughter, almost went outside with me once, in the "airlock" doors before we got outside where I asked her if she could calm down or did we have to go all the way outside? Neither ever went completely outside, but I'm sure whatever they imagined was worse than what would have happened.
That's exactly what I was talking about, no physical interaction ,just the threat of having to go back home.