Team JJ Wedding Plans - April 8, 2017

[nlam01]

You know, I could use some advice.
My youngest sister was shielded by my other sister and I when we were growing up. We protected her from my biological mom's feral instincts and all the abuse she put the 2 of older girls through.
My youngest sister accepted the bridesmaid position however she is close to the very woman I despise nor have contact with. If she finds out I chose not to invite such evilness, my little sister my drop being a bridesmaid. Yet, if I invite that damn woman, there could be some serious drama as well as humiliation.
Any advice would be good.

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[cbigclarke]

Make sure I show up, and I'll take care of the drama queen

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[nlam01]

You better be there. It's not a wedding without my brother

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[cbigclarke]

Yes I shall

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[Rebel]

It's your wedding; Do what you want, and damn all the rest.

 

[jrbfishn]

You can not make decisions for others. This is YOUR day darlin', you do what makes YOU happy, not someone else. If she doesn't think it's right, tell her when she gets married, she can invite mother to her wedding. This one is yours. If she chooses not to come, that choice is hers.

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[benenglish]

She's my sister.
Still interested?

Sometimes I enjoy a challenge...

 

[scgstuff]

Sometimes I enjoy a challenge...

Ben, you crack me up.....

 

[nlam01]

It's your wedding; Do what you want, and damn all the rest.

You can not make decisions for others. This is YOUR day darlin', you do what makes YOU happy, not someone else. If she doesn't think it's right, tell her when she gets married, she can invite mother to her wedding. This one is yours. If she chooses not to come, that choice is hers.

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I guess I keep trying to be fair without really thinking what I want. Yes, I really want everyone to drop drama and enjoy the day with Jeremy and I. I want it to be a lot of fun for everyone.
I guess I should try to think more about it being about Jeremy and I rather than worry about whether I'm being fair or not.
No, I do not want that woman at my wedding. I know how she is as well as what she may do to try to ruin the day. She's self-centered and will never apologize for the horrors my sister and I endured.
In the end, it doesn't matter what my sister decides I guess. It will be what is meant.
Thank you both for reminding me that my happiness for that day comes first.


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[jrbfishn]

Welcome sweety. I know I sometimes give you some shit. Oh well, it's fun and I'll do it again. But I really hope for both of you that it is everything you dreamed of.

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[kyletxria1911a1]

Your day your call

 

[nlam01]

Found this today and had a good laugh. It definitely matches Jeremy's personality. I don't think Groom's cakes have wedding toppers, but I think tradition should be broken this time

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[jrbfishn]

Mine did. Same thing only fishing.

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[nlam01]

This is the one we chose for the wedding cake itself. Fits us both perfectly

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[nlam01]

Mine did. Same thing only fishing.

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Can you explain the significance behind the Groom's cake for Jeremy?

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[Dawico]

Can you explain the significance behind the Groom's cake for Jeremy?

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Something for the stripper to hide in. It is very significant.

 

[jrbfishn]

Well mine was a quarter sheet songle layer. Stripper would have to be pretty small.
Explain. Sure.
The women planning the whole shebang wanted one for some stupid reason. So......

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[Vaquero]

Lol

 

[Rebel]

Weddings are strange.

 

[jrbfishn]

It's the people at them.

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