EVERYTHING is a test to see how long and IF I'll wait on her, to get in the car, to go to town, just to walk down the drive way. If I made an appointment with her to walk to the mail box a YEAR in advance I'd be standing at the door waiting on her to go to the bathroom, empty the drier, start the washer, it would be something no matter what. If we were sitting in front of the TV asleep all afternoon and decide to get up and go check the mail, it would be an emergency as we walk past the dishwasher for me to stand around and WAIT for her to throw another plate in there and start it.Rushing me to get ready to go somewhere, then I have to wait 10 minutes while she makes sure she has everything she needs in her purse and decides what shoes she's going to wear.
Then she wonders why she is standing there at the door by herself sometimes.